In part 1, we explored how Suggestology can have
positive effects in advertising and
sales and how it can have both negative and positive
effects in a domestic family
setting.
In part 2, we discussed both the negative and positive
effects Suggestology can have
in the work place plus a description of the Japanese
system and how a slightly
modified version was applied to American Industry with
very positive results.
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In particular, we discussed in great detail, employee
contributions to Japanese
companies by use of the 'Suggestion Box'! In this
article, we will explore various
considerations and methods by which such a system
might be applied in the
American work place.
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Making Suggestions - Important Points To Consider:
One of the most important points to consider is, 'the
day of the week'! Mondays and
Fridays should be avoided at all costs! On Mondays,
everything that was put off the
past Friday comes to the fore plus, most likely, a lot
of new things to consider!
By Friday, most people are 'stressed out' and are
counting the hours to the weekend,
not a good time for new considerations, even if they
are very good ones!
Tuesdays may be O.K., depending on existing work load,
but Wednesdays are by
far the best as there is always a somewhat feeling of
relief - 'Hump Day', at last!
Thursdays can be acceptable at times but that depends
on weather or not, one's
'Target' is feeling 'harried' or just 'coasting
along'.
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If the 'Suggestion Box' method is used, then there is
no problem as the main Middle
Manager who is responsible for this will most likely
have allocated adequate time
for this activity.
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However, if this is a 'how and
when' question in approaching a
superior, then several more things must be considered!
('Time' has already been
considered - Wednesdays are the best!).
Enticing the 'Target':
Like in a good game of chess, tactics must be well
thought out! One of the best
approaches is to make the 'Target' think that he or
she thought about or at least,
'considered' your idea before, (even if its a lie! -
Sneaky, but it works!)
Example: In general conversation; "Remember a couple
of months ago when we
all got together informally and 'Blue-Sky'd' some
ideas, etc., etc. etc, - - -?
No astute Middle Manager would ever want to admit,
'not knowing about', - - -!
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Its
a matter of prestige and ego! Also, use body posture,
gestures, and voice intonations
that reflect those of your 'Target', (people like to
'see themselves', especially
corporate managers!). Now that you have 'broken the
ice', there are some even
more important points to consider!
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The Preferred Mode of Reception:
Each of us has a 'Preferred Mode of Reception'! It is
either' Visual', 'Audio', or
'Tactile'!
A 'Visual' receptive person prefers pictures and
diagrams, something he or she can
see! 'Visual' receptors usually do not like detailed
and lengthily presentations but
prefer to 'look at' and 'visualize' the concepts.
'Visual' receptive persons give them
selves away with sayings like: "I see what you
mean!"; "I get the picture!"; "That
looks good to me!"; "Beautiful!!"!
'Audio' receptive persons most often shun pictures and
diagrams which they find
complicated and confusing and prefer detailed and
lengthily verbal presentations so
as to get and
absorb all of the facts - something to think about!
They give themselves away by
saying such things as: "That sounds good to me!"; "I
like the sound of that!";
"That sounds like a winner!"; "Tell me more about
that!".
"Tactile' receptive persons prefer 'gadgets' and
'toys', things he or she can get their
hands on and manipulate and 'play with'! They like to
'feel' how things work, take
them apart, and put them back together again! They
usually say things like: "Let
me play around with that idea!"; "I really want to
get a handle on that!"; "That
feels good to me!"; "Let me handle that a little!".
If you have the opportunity, look at your 'Target's'
office! The "Visual" receptive
person will have all kinds of pictures and diagrams
all over the walls. The 'Audio'
receptor will have a vast number of file cabinets and
often have a tape deck with a
box full of lectures. The 'Tactile' receptor will
have an office full of 'gadgets' and
'toys'.
Armed with this knowledge, you now know the most
effective and receptive way to
present your idea or suggestion! However, there are
exceptions. If you must
present your ideas to a group, keep in mind that you
may be presenting your subject
to a group of various assorted receptors. In this
case, it would be best to use a
'Power Point' presentation composed of all three
methods.
How To Get To 'YES' In A Hurry:
In this day and age, we live in a World where
'Diplomacy' and 'Negotiation' have
become everyday, common 'buzz words'! We have Union,
Corporate, Political,
National, and International, (and even 'spousal'),
negotiations! - the list is endless.
The 'Big Question' then becomes, "How does one 'WIN'
!". What constitutes,
'Winning' or 'Being A Winner'???
For there to be any real 'Winner', every person
involved must gain something! 'All
for Me and Nothing for You!', just does not work!.
Therefore, for any real
'Diplomacy' or 'Negotiation' to really work, all those
involved must discuss all of the
issues that are in everyone's 'best interests'!
Taking rigid, entrenched positions
leads only to 'temperamental deadlock'! Then a third
'arbitrator' is required! If
the 'arbitrator' cannot break the 'deadlock', the
situation just deteriorates and
everyone remains 'stalled' on 'dead center'! Nothing
is resolved! In International
situations, if this condition is sustained long
enough, it usually leads to 'WAR'!
History is full of this! (The current situation in
the former Nation of Yugoslavia in
Kosevo is a good example of this!)
The 'bottom line' to all of this is that no matter
what type of negotiations one is
involved in, always pursue 'mutual best interests'!
Taking a rigid or entrenched
position will only lead to 'gridlock' and get the
situation nowhere!
Hopefully, this presentation will have given our
readers some positive directions in
solving the all to often problems that confront each
and every one of us, sometimes,
on a daily basis.
In Part 4, we will move on to the often controversial
subject of Hypnosis, its uses,
advantages and disadvantages.
NOTE: Reading references will be provided when this article is completed.
Dick Udell